Quit Alcohol Coach - Simon Chapple - Be Sober
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The Rise in Sobriety - More People Than Ever Quit Drinking Alcohol
I recently appeared on ITV News for this awesome piece about the huge rise in the number of people choosing not to drink alcohol.
It is well worth a watch, leave a comment and let me know what you think and whether it is similar to your story with alcohol.
With love.
Simon
Scroll down for awesome resources:
My goal is to help you stop drinking on your own and enjoy the journey without feeling like you are missing out. Use the resources below to connect with me and access tools and support that will keep you motivated on your journey to alcohol-freedom:
Are you new to sobriety? Start by watching with this short playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLR6fCQf42B25qvXrIVj66lHqO7fT62TzH.html
Join my stop drinking programme: www.joinbesober.com
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Відео

How to let go of past mistakes - Guilt, Shame & Regret
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When you drink regularly or heavily it is almost inevitable that you will do things you regret and feel shame about. When you stop drinking it is common to feel guilty about past mistakes and behaviour and if we are unable to let go of these feelings they can hold us back and cause us problems. This video will show you eactly how to let go of past mistakes and the associated feelings of regret,...
Wht stopping drinking is like learning to drive
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Wht stopping drinking is like learning to drive
10 Things That Can Ruin Your Sobriety
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10 Things That Can Ruin Your Sobriety
Do You Have An All or Nothing Personality?
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Do You Have An All or Nothing Personality?
Staying sober when your routine changes
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Staying sober when your routine changes
Alcohol is a Reward, I Deserve It!
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Alcohol is a Reward, I Deserve It!
How to bring more joy into your life
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How to bring more joy into your life
How to Stop Making Decisions About Alcohol and Drinking
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How to Stop Making Decisions About Alcohol and Drinking
7 Ways to Stay Alcohol-Free
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7 Ways to Stay Alcohol-Free
7 Ways to Say No to a Drink
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7 Ways to Say No to a Drink
Could stopping drinking kill you?
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Could stopping drinking kill you?
Changing Your Mindset to Quit Alcohol For Good
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Changing Your Mindset to Quit Alcohol For Good
7 Big Lessons I Learned When I Quit Drinking
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7 Big Lessons I Learned When I Quit Drinking
How to break unhealthy associations
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How to break unhealthy associations
This almost kiilled me!
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This almost kiilled me!
I am worried my partner will cause me to drink
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I am worried my partner will cause me to drink
What to do when you don't feel good enough?
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What to do when you don't feel good enough?
Should I tell my family and friends when I quit drinking?
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Should I tell my family and friends when I quit drinking?
I feel more anxious and depressed since I quit alcohol
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I feel more anxious and depressed since I quit alcohol
How to stay positive when you quit alcohol
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How to stay positive when you quit alcohol
5 Surprising Benefits of Being Sober
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5 Surprising Benefits of Being Sober
The importance of a non-negotiable in sobriety
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The importance of a non-negotiable in sobriety
7 reasons people are afraid to quit alcohol
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7 reasons people are afraid to quit alcohol
Does alcohol really make us relaxed?
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Does alcohol really make us relaxed?
The Power Of Sober Firsts & Milestones
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The Power Of Sober Firsts & Milestones
Why alcohol is not really a reward
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Why alcohol is not really a reward
Vivid dreams after I stopped drinking - strange dreams in sobriety
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Vivid dreams after I stopped drinking - strange dreams in sobriety
7 good reasons never to drink alcohol again
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7 good reasons never to drink alcohol again
7 things that could destroy your sobriety
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7 things that could destroy your sobriety

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @juliesuesunshine
    @juliesuesunshine 2 дні тому

    🎉 Proud of You, Hayley! You are an inpiration! Thank you for sharing. 💜

  • @juliesuesunshine
    @juliesuesunshine 2 дні тому

    Listening to this specific video everyday. This is what I have been searching for: A Daily Positive Reminder! Why I removed alcohol from my life. I lived a half-life for so long. So much Joy to experience now. Thank you for this!!!😂

  • @margiemills4063
    @margiemills4063 2 дні тому

    Afraid, worried, anxious.

  • @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers
    @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers 2 дні тому

    I quit drinking on 05 August 2024. Hold me accountable.

  • @yolandagrabowski6043
    @yolandagrabowski6043 2 дні тому

    I'm tempted to finish the rest of the rum flavor in my bottle. I hate feeling drunk.

  • @yorkiemom4272
    @yorkiemom4272 4 дні тому

    So discouraging. Why am I not experiencing these great feelings? I didn't have problems not drinking in the beginning because I was motivated. A month in, I started wanting to drink because I didn't notice any difference. Certainly, didn't feel any better, still don't. Month in, two months, 3 months... when? When do all these great feelings kick in? Sleep sucks, no weight loss, still puffy eyes, tired, no energy, depression.... oh boy. I think all these videos I watched gave me false hope, big expectations.

  • @casper1240
    @casper1240 5 днів тому

    Im on day 6 no drink does anyone else have problems sleeping .when i go to bed i get restess arms and legs after being asleep for about an hour the only thing that seems to help is 2 Parecetamols just wondered if anyone experienced the same thing ?

  • @Hison-Dcarman
    @Hison-Dcarman 6 днів тому

    I started drinking since my teenage, got addicted to alcohol. Spent my whole life fighting alcohol addiction. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

    • @DassHibionada
      @DassHibionada 5 днів тому

      Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏

    • @SusanaGomez-mp8sk
      @SusanaGomez-mp8sk 5 днів тому

      YES very sure of Dr.alishrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, BPD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @PaulRobertson-o9q
      @PaulRobertson-o9q 5 днів тому

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

    • @JacksonSmith-wc8oo
      @JacksonSmith-wc8oo 5 днів тому

      Yes he's Dr.alishrooms. My daughter did straight shrooms in few days. Made her whole! after words, no more addictions, pains, ptsd and depression. It helped us.

    • @Jjj-o9n
      @Jjj-o9n 5 днів тому

      Thanks for sharing this great information, this would help my son.

  • @yorkiemom4272
    @yorkiemom4272 6 днів тому

    This is a video that most people should listen to. A lot of good information. Most of us grew up and associate drinking with positive times. I decided to quit due to what i hear about benefits.. Well, I think too much emphasis is put on how much better one will feel. What a disappointment. Didn't lose weight, still depressed, terrible sleeping patterns, aches and pains, balance issues... list goes on. Still hoping for benefits to surface. But I'm on board, hoping there are better reasons to quit than continue.

  • @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers
    @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers 7 днів тому

    Good advice, awful theme music.

  • @jhonpadre1260
    @jhonpadre1260 10 днів тому

    Sober for 100 days❤️❤️❤️

  • @thetoast144
    @thetoast144 11 днів тому

    Thank you.. superb analysis.. especially the narcissist part of the enabler.

  • @pamgaul1199
    @pamgaul1199 11 днів тому

    Day 1 --I don’t drink every day but I drink way too much when I do drink. Trying to go 5 days without

  • @Codisrocks
    @Codisrocks 12 днів тому

    Scam. Spreading lies. It is incredibly common for things to continue to get worse for months after quitting. Completely normal. Instead you're hear blowing smoke trying to make money off vulnerable people.

  • @simonbarry1886
    @simonbarry1886 13 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @user-ux6lf2iv9q
    @user-ux6lf2iv9q 13 днів тому

    Bull shit. 104 weeks absolutely bo alcohol and you still feel like shit 😮 the feeling never get better 😢

  • @derrionthompson8272
    @derrionthompson8272 14 днів тому

    Today will be the day I give up alcohol

  • @bensbikex510
    @bensbikex510 15 днів тому

    Jesus I got all 30 symptoms . .. 11 months sober .. lost my Job and my apartment. Trying to learn to be myself again

  • @nisancashi2241
    @nisancashi2241 16 днів тому

    whats your take on 0.0 alcohol beers

  • @slothape
    @slothape 16 днів тому

    Alcohol did actually work as a solution for my emotional issues for a while, I cant really blame myself

  • @persevere6326
    @persevere6326 16 днів тому

    Excellent

  • @user-ky2eo5ll3e
    @user-ky2eo5ll3e 17 днів тому

    You are a legend!

  • @user-ky2eo5ll3e
    @user-ky2eo5ll3e 17 днів тому

    I am watching this while drunk and hoping for quitung for good. I am a very heavy drinker.I drink from first second I wake up. I don't wanna function like this anymore. I was a awesome athlete and alcohol destroyed me. Tommorow after work I m gonna hit the gym again. Please pray for me and for all who cant get out of this. We are more powerfull than this. Please reply and ask me if I went to the gym and changed something, even if I didn't. Make me feel bad so I can change something. Benzos aren't the answer. I ve ate one box of xanax in 3 days, that's the same like drinking, I ll just face the problem, take the bull by the horns

    • @user-ky2eo5ll3e
      @user-ky2eo5ll3e 17 днів тому

      I know I reply to myself but maybe it helps someone, I ve been in ICU, ambulance came, all the worst thing that can happen, if you read this please acknowledge that alcohol is the problem not the answer, we must find strength within ourselves

    • @kimcoghill2173
      @kimcoghill2173 15 днів тому

      How are you doing?

    • @user-ky2eo5ll3e
      @user-ky2eo5ll3e 15 днів тому

      @@kimcoghill2173 anxiety is through the roof, barely manageable, still not started the gym as work and life responsabilities overwhelm me( I live alone and I have to do everything and also I work at my apartment, got a dog to take care of, also my mom)In 5.08 I ll start again with a work friend so that the agoraphobia wont hit me that hard. In the gym. Anyway I had cut a lot of alcohol lately and I function better but still can't go cold turkey. Sadly this demon is a tough one and seems like I can not cope without it. I ve got some Xanax but I dont wana take it only if I go through sever withdrawal or sumthin. I wish all the best for people who are struggling with this. It's a nightmare.

    • @user-ky2eo5ll3e
      @user-ky2eo5ll3e День тому

      Replying to myself so I remind myself I've won some battles. Status update: 3 weeks into gym, sleeping better, eating better, mood improved overall, still drinking few beers a night, still a huge step forward

  • @jdssurf
    @jdssurf 17 днів тому

    early on, around 5pm start getting nausea and light head yucky feeling........is that withdrawal ?

  • @weinerwagon6667
    @weinerwagon6667 18 днів тому

    Really miss your videos. Hope you are doing well. ❤

  • @Username_Invalid
    @Username_Invalid 18 днів тому

    This is the most important video I have ever watched. Everything you said I have noticed at one point or another, but I never connected the dots. Thank You.

  • @don8498
    @don8498 20 днів тому

    3 weeks no alcohol!! I have kept a strict diet and maintained a healthy workout regiment. I lost 15 lbs. but that is nothing compared to how I feel mentally. I am very clear and focused. I find myself breezing through daily responsibilities and workouts. Sober is the way to go! Stay strong 💪 stay sober.

  • @maryannechalifoux6458
    @maryannechalifoux6458 20 днів тому

    I have 17 days in, not easy the last few days, but I’m determined to do this for my life and health, I’m tired of hangovers, not knowing what happened before I passed out, embarrassing myself, I was tired of being a disappointment to God, I couldn’t have done any days without him, I can do all things in Christ which strengthens me. Philippians 4:13😊

  • @jmcsweeney6519
    @jmcsweeney6519 20 днів тому

    Ive gained clarity and health since giving it up but im lonely af. My wife drinks with no problems and goes out alot. Im 2 years in now and questioning my choice to go back to drinking to fit in. Help.

  • @jannaolsen3557
    @jannaolsen3557 21 день тому

    Nothing is so bad drinking can't make worse

  • @tammyjams22
    @tammyjams22 21 день тому

    I am thinking about becoming an alcohol coach. Do you recommend any coaching certification programs?

  • @cjh0751
    @cjh0751 21 день тому

    It's the vivid dreams that are very scary. I have trouble fighting my way out of them.

  • @geef5328
    @geef5328 22 дні тому

    Thank u❤

  • @jacobgarner5593
    @jacobgarner5593 22 дні тому

    Goood stuff ‼️‼️‼️‼️ I listened 👂 to the whole thing ! Danmmmm the cravings are a biiiiiiiiii they come for me around 3pm to 7pm !!!! Everyday I want to beat it but I fail !!!! Rite now it’s 9 am July 23,24 Is it normal to have really bad anxiety 😥 when trying to fall asleep 🛌 without alcohol 🍺????? Because mine is extremely bad !!!! When falling asleep without alcohol 🍺!!!!‼️‼️‼️

  • @BenWharfe-vr1pn
    @BenWharfe-vr1pn 22 дні тому

    I found the more time I got under my belt the less I wanted to drink.

  • @Tyler-ku4bu
    @Tyler-ku4bu 23 дні тому

    If I don't stop drinking beer, I will lose my girlfriend and probably ruin my career.

  • @user-or9kk5gy4q
    @user-or9kk5gy4q 24 дні тому

    Here we go. I’ve drank 12 to 18 beers a day every day since I was 30 years old. I’m 58 now. Tomorrow I start the fight of my life

  • @user-he8bz9ii8w
    @user-he8bz9ii8w 24 дні тому

    Thanks for the video,now am at awareness stage,

  • @haydenyork8414
    @haydenyork8414 24 дні тому

    I'm 24 hours sober right now. I couldn't sleep last night so I flooded my night with videos to help me stay sober and I found your channel. Thank you.

    • @besober
      @besober 24 дні тому

      Please think about checking out my group coaching and online program, they can be really powerful tools on this journey. Hang in there, rest as much as you can, and keep on learning more and more!

  • @patrickballard894
    @patrickballard894 24 дні тому

    Cut the fluff. Get to the point. Losing the will to live. I think I need sa drink now. Boring zzzzzzzx

  • @lebohangmonnapula2561
    @lebohangmonnapula2561 25 днів тому

    I paused by doing breathing exercise

  • @lebohangmonnapula2561
    @lebohangmonnapula2561 25 днів тому

    Excellent

  • @duhaast1
    @duhaast1 25 днів тому

    3 months sober, 4 weeks no nicotine. Havent really lost much weight but am eating generously. Have out on a bit of muscle tho benching 5x5 at 120kg after 2 months gym. Nicotine was hardest to quit had a bad sugar crave for like 2 weeks after. Another reason i guess i didnt lose much fat since quitting.

  • @Brian.001
    @Brian.001 26 днів тому

    Just my personal experience, but the only way to stop drinking is by finding a good, compelling reason to do so. Mine was the atrocious state of my blood readings, and my deteriorating body. Once I decided to think of alcohol as a toxin, I was able to just stop. Why I would I choose to pour poison down my throat? Without that compelling reason to stop, no amount of 'will-power' would have seen me through. By the way, I'm 73 y.o. and stopped completely over five years ago.

  • @adelnurkic886
    @adelnurkic886 27 днів тому

    Quitting is for losers

  • @AudreyOrourke-n1j
    @AudreyOrourke-n1j 27 днів тому

    Two weeks 🎉

  • @janvanaartrijk9673
    @janvanaartrijk9673 27 днів тому

    I stopped heavy drinking a long time ago. I drink about four glasses alcohol a month max and sometimes I don't touch the stuff for months. I've done so for the past 25 years. Before that there were periods that I drank heavily and I still remember how bad I felt the days after a day of binge drinking. The most difficult thing about stopping was the social aspect; my friends didn't stop drinking and as it turned out, most of my friends weren't as funny or interesting as I thought they were, when I looked at them sober. I have two grown up kids now and I'm glad that they don't smoke and that they don't drink much.

  • @williamcarroll4490
    @williamcarroll4490 27 днів тому

    I watched a documentary of Titanics cowards and relized I was no better. I dont deserve a family

  • @williamcarroll4490
    @williamcarroll4490 28 днів тому

    I identify with every word. The anxiety is intense I hate. Hate. Hate it. And being hung over is like being dead, but still in pain. So I hate the way I feel b4 I drink and hate the way I feel after. So thanks for your help.

  • @don8498
    @don8498 28 днів тому

    2 weeks w no alcohol and I feel fine… I definitely feel healthier and that is enough for me to stay away for good. I’ve been dinking heavily for over 20 years but I had only drank beer and wine except for special occasions.... Good luck 🍀 everyone Keep fighting for your sobriety